The First Date
by Chelestiar Kong

PRE-DATE PHASE
- Using CPR To Ensure Survival To The Next Phase

The pre-date phase refers to the period from the acceptance of the date to the actual date itself. This is the period which requires the most preparation. To ensure high survival rates to the next stage, CPR is essential.
 

Conversation Topics

Running dry on conversation topics and resulting in embarrassing silences is one of the last things you would want to occur on your first date. Think of possible conversation topics beforehand. These would include hobbies, sports, travel and music. Check out on the latest fashion and food, as these are topics which girls like to talk about.
 

Plan The Venue & Activity

Before the date, spend time to think of what you want to do with her. Suggested ideas include a simple meal for two at a café or restaurant so that more time can be spent on conversations to know each other better. Other ideas include engaging in her favourite sport (because exercises are known to pump up adrenaline levels which create a sense of euphoria) or a simple walk in the park. The rule of the thumb is to choose an activity which allows for interaction, and preferably, something which the both of you enjoy.

Whatever the activity chosen, it will be best to reserve the venue in advance. It will be good to familiarize yourself with the venue or menu beforehand so that you are more confident and decisive during the date.

Right Mindset

Have realistic expectations. By accepting an invitation from you to go out alone does not necessarily mean that the girl wants you to be her boyfriend! Hence, do not expect to hold her hand or get a kiss from this first encounter. Treat this first date as an opportunity to know each other better. Do not rush into things and see how the relationship develops from there.

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